Don’t Change Your Life If You Are Not Sure 100%
When you think to change your life must understand that means a lot more than a style, some clothes, a diet, another hobby. The most important thing is to analyze well how your life is, what is good and what is bad and even how new changes can affect your life.
Talk to friends, tell them what you want to try, research, be informed. Give yourself time and then see what’s going on. What you live is your life with everything you have, good and bad. If you just need to improve, you will find that without a hurry.
Changing your whole life is a huge thing, you can’t throw a few years for an idea or something or someone has influenced you. If you have a sedentary life, you are in depression for a long time and radically affect your life, then yes.
You can become active again, you can think positively and life will change and bring you good things. But you will remain the same, everything you have learned, everything you’ve done is your legacy to let others. You have to start with the reason or reasons and must belong to yourself, how to affect the people in your life, it’s a whole process that needs attention and time.
When that moment comes and you are 100% you will know and you will have all the arguments and answers you need for change. Most importantly, if you can’t do it alone, ask for help. There are communities where you can exchange ideas, people motivate each other and everything is much simpler.
Once the process begins, you will leave behind things, you will reset yourself and make space for new things. This is called change. If you don’t know exactly what you want to keep and what you want to leave behind, it’s not the right time. Put everything in the balance, it’s about your life. If you are young, you have time to experience.
If you have already 35 you already have chosen a path, your life is active. You can’t get out of the car while walking, just because you are in the wrong way, you will feel the consequences. You have to think of an alternative path with the direction ahead. You can’t go back and try another way. Life has one direction.
To think that you lived in vain or everything you did was wrong, it is the biggest mistake you can make. There is no perfect life or perfect man, the things that we learn are from mistakes.
The more mistakes, the more you learn. If you live a life with the same mistakes repeated over and over, it’s no longer mistakes, already become a choice, a way of life. If you can’t learn by yourself, no one can teach you anything.
A psychologist or a life coach can just wake up your brain and lead from another way. He can’t do more. It all depends on you and what you want but you have to be 100% convinced that you want to take the step.
People that changed their lives had at least one serious reason and should be appreciated. It’s not simple or fast and if you want to understand something, find out the whole story, without shortcuts. Changing a life is a damn serious thing to do.
If you already know and have reason to change it, do it. If you’re not 100% convinced, give yourself time and see what you need. A bit of organization in your life is always welcome, without a hurry, without pressure and if you are overwhelmed, ask for help. Sometimes just a simple discussion helps more than we can anticipate.
If you have any questions, I encourage you to ask. If I don’t know the answer, someone else can have it and give it to you.
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